

That's the great power of music - it can inspire us to do more, be more. At sixteen, I knew I couldn't do this yet, but the song made me want to. In just those four lines, he sums up the modern man's struggle to put aside the conventions that men need to be strong and reserved, which conflicts with their desire to show true emotions to the women they love. The way Peter sums up the complex emotions involved in a serious adult relationship are nothing short of poetic.

It was a relationship that was difficult, complicated, heartfelt and passionate. Peter wrote it during his long romance with actress Rosanna Arquette*.

"In Your Eyes" is a song about a real relationship. He formed the words that I knew would some day be in my heart, and God knows I would never be able to wrench them out like this: And even though I was only sixteen when it came out, it was something that I could aspire to. For me, Gabriel's song, "In Your Eyes" was the first love song I heard that wasn't just a sappy "how many different ways can I say I love you" love song. Throughout the ages, how many of us hapless males have used the words of the more talented to woo the fairer sex? From our forefathers quoting Shakespeare, Frost and Dickinson to the more modern poets of Dylan, Lennon/McCartney and Peter Gabriel. Um." You smile, tell us we're cute, and give us a sympathy hug.Īnd this isn't a new phenomenon.

You're the chocolate to my peanut butter, um, or the peanut butter to my chocolate, you know, whichever works better for you. Something along the lines of, "You're so special to me. We want to - desperately, but it ends up coming out pretty lame most of the time. Especially if you're talking about us guys, we generally don't have the emotional depth and complexity to fully express what our heart is telling us to tell you. Most of us need Hallmark cards to find the right words to sum up our relationship. Adult Top 40 chart, making it one of Gaines’ most successful works.Most of us aren't fancy poets who can shower our lovers with earnest words that make their heart swoon. In 2001, American singer and guitarist Jeffrey Gaines’ cover version of the song peaked at number 22 on the U.S.The song peaked at number 26 on the U.S.In April 2014, when Gabriel was being honored with an induction into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, he performed the song with Youssou N’Dour.The producers of Say Anything… reportedly paid somewhere in the region of $200,000 to use In Your Eyes in the movie.According to the film’s director Cameron Crowe, actress Rosanna Arquette (the reported inspiration of the song) was the one who persuaded Gabriel to give his permission for the song to be used in the film.The song’s appearance in this film made the song gain popularity once again in 1989. The song was used in a key scene in the 1989 romantic comedy-drama film Say Anything… starring John Cusack and Ione Skye.It is important to take note of the fact that in addition to being spoken in Senegal, the Wolof language is also spoken in Mauritania and the Gambia. Some of the choruses of the song are sung by the renowned Senegalese singer Youssou N’Dour in his native language of Wolof.The song was released in September 1986 as one of the five singles from Gabriel’s fifth studio album titled So, which in 1987 received a Grammy Award nomination for Album of the Year but lost to Paul Simon’s critically acclaimed album Graceland.Gabriel produced the song along with American bassist and producer Bill Laswell and Canadian music producer and musician Daniel Lanois.In Your Eyes was written by Peter Gabriel.However, it is worth noting that Gabriel has never confirmed that Arquette was the inspiration behind the song. Gabriel wrote the song while he and Arquette were in a romantic relationship. It is said that the American actress and film director Rosanna Arquette was the inspiration behind the song.
